Sorority recruitment should be a positive experience for both sisters and PNMs. Conversations are meant to help you get to know one another and shouldn't make anyone feel uncomfortable. Here's a short list of conversation topics to avoid for the best recruitment experience possible.
Questions about rituals (initiation, sisterhood ceremonies) or members-only information
Sob stories or anything to garner pity from the girls you're talking to
Any topics with a negative connotation - whether you're a sister or PNM, you want your interactions during recruitment to be positive